What Should Couples Wear to a Boudoir Shoot?

Let’s Get Real.

You’re staring at your closet. Your partner’s doing the same. There’s an underlying panic about what to wear for your couple’s boudoir photoshoot—because let’s face it, you want to look HOT, but not like you’re trying out for a reality TV show.

Take a breath. Through The Lens has got you. I’ve coached countless couples through this exact WHAT-DO-I-WEAR crisis—and it always works out. Here’s the deal…

Step One: Ditch the Stress

Boudoir isn’t about recreating someone else’s fantasy. This is about YOU. Your chemistry. Your vibe. So, rule number one: Don’t force yourself into something that feels awkward or like a bad Halloween costume.

The Classic… Lingerie (But, Make It Yours)

Sure, lingerie is the default. Lace. Silk. Leather (hello boldness). If it makes you feel like a million bucks, WEAR IT. But, if the thought of lace makes you itchy, skip it. Bodysuits, bralettes, matching sets—grab what makes you feel powerful and irresistible.

And for the guys (or anyone who doesn’t do “lingerie”)? Fitted boxers. A crisp white tee. Button-down shirts—half undone. Sometimes, less is so much more.

No Rules—Just Chemistry

You know what’s sexy? Authenticity. Your partner’s favorite t-shirt on you. Jeans and nothing else. Silk robes. That hoodie you “borrowed” and never gave back. If you both feel good, the camera will catch that energy.

Coordinating (But Not Matching)

Let’s be clear: this isn’t a family Christmas card. You don’t need to MATCH. But coordinating colors? That’s a win. Pick a palette—think neutrals, jewel tones, or moody blacks and reds. It’ll look like you belong together without looking like twins.

Texture. Texture. Texture.

Layers aren’t just for winter. Sheer. Velvet. Cotton. Leather. Mixing textures adds visual interest and, honestly, turns up the heat. Ditch the boring—bring me the drama.

Props? Yes, Please.

Got something that’s “so you”? A leather jacket? Your favorite hat? A guitar? Bring it. These little additions tell a story that’s all yours.

A Couple Don’ts (Because I’m Honest Like That)

Neon colors—blinding, not sexy.

Busy patterns—distracting chaos.

Wrinkled clothes—no one wants to Photoshop that.

Anything you have to constantly adjust—if you’re tugging it up or down every five seconds, skip it.

Still Unsure? ASK ME.

Seriously. Send photos. I’ll give you the thumbs up, the “try again,” or the “YES, THIS IS IT” with zero judgment. My job is to make you look—no, FEEL—unforgettable.

Boudoir should be about connection, chemistry, and confidence. With Through The Lens, you’ll walk in feeling a little nervous, and walk out with photos that scream: “Yeah, we did that.”

Ready? Let’s make some magic.

Questions? Ideas? Unusual wardrobe choices?

I want to hear them all.

Contact Through The Lens here.

Ready to unleash your confidence? Book your session with Through The Lens and let’s create something unforgettable—one bold outfit at a time.